Monday, May 25, 2009
~ 8:37 AM ~
七个对不起，让你懂得什么是爱。
男孩和女孩从小就认识，男孩经常约女孩一起去村外的池塘边捉小虾，每次男孩总是满载而归，
女孩却是两手空空，女孩总是失落的含着眼泪，独自一个人回到家，然后闷闷不乐。晚饭前，男
孩敲响女孩家的门，女孩一见是男孩，扭头就走，男孩追上前，对女孩说：“对不起，我把你的
虾都捉走了，给，我把它们养在小鱼缸里，送给你。”女孩眉头一放，慧心的笑了，就这样反复
着他们纯纯的童年，转眼，他们各自成长着。
——纯纯的“对不起” 。
男孩总是喜欢戏弄女孩，经常会把女孩逗到哭，然后又去哄女孩到她笑为止，直到长大后，也是如此。
男孩经常偷偷的把女孩的自行车轮胎的气放到没有，然后躲在远处，看女孩着急的走
投无路，等着女孩拨通他的手机，然后破口大骂他的小贼行为。可男孩，依旧那么喜
欢这样的女孩。他窃窃的从远处走来，灰溜溜的为女孩推着那辆没了气的自行车，任
由女孩在一旁发牢骚，男孩却暗自窃喜，然后委屈的对女孩说：“对不起，我知道错
了。”随即，女孩便会柔弱下来，告诉男孩下次不允许那样，男孩点头，于是，那时
的他们每天都充满着笑容。
—— “对不起”的快乐 。
大学毕业后，男孩和女孩各自有了工作，男孩的工作总是很忙，有时一个月都休息不
到一次，而女孩总是抱怨男孩冷落了她，终于，他们有了第一次的吵架。女孩委屈的
哭起来，可男孩却很理直气壮的告诉女孩：“这是为了我的工作。”这场冷战持续了
很久。终于，女孩还是忍不住，主动和男孩和好了。后来很多次男孩和女孩都因为这
样的小事而吵得不可开交，可每次，都是女孩先妥协。
那年，女孩生日，男孩答应女孩要给他过一个浪漫的生日，女孩欣喜不已，她在家精
心打扮，等着男孩回来陪她渡过这个美妙的生日，这一等就是凌晨，女孩在睡梦中醒
来，脸上挂着泪痕，男孩见到女孩，心疼的为女孩擦去脸庞的泪痕：“对不起，嫁给
我好吗？”于是男孩拿出一枚戒指。
—— “对不起”也是一种承诺。
婚后，男孩的事业大有成就，经常有许多应酬，而女孩已经成为一个专职太太了，每
天在家为男孩准备热菜热饭，把家里收拾的干干净净，她经常会去菜场买回一些小河
虾放在鱼缸里养着，男孩总问他为什么，女孩却总是慧心的一笑。
慢慢的，男孩每次回家，身上总是充满了不同的香水味道，而每次没等女孩问，男孩
总是忙着解释说应酬太多。女孩黯然，那时起，女孩不太爱说话了，也不像以前那么
开朗了，她总是喜欢成天的呆在家里，抱着枕头看韩剧，然后随着剧情哭泣，夜深
时，就会疯狂的大哭。以后的日子里，男孩回来时，身上的香水味只有一种味道了，
女孩从来不问，可是男孩依旧说：“对不起，今天又去应酬了。”
—— “对不起”，谎言的开始。
渐渐的，男孩开始不回家，或总是在外出差，男孩的事业越来越好，身边都是奉承的
人，他每天都在别人的恭维下自豪的笑着，而女孩，几乎不出门了，她总会去超市买
上很多方便面，和一些必要的日用品，然后把自己关在家里，这一呆就是很久。从
前，女孩会经常和男孩一起聊聊天，而现在，她孤身一人，身边没有一个可以说话的
人，每次打电话问男孩什么时候回家，男孩总是仓促的回答到：“对不起，我太忙
了。”女孩，失落的扣上电话，那以后她再也没有问男孩什么时候会回家。
—— “对不起”，只是个敷衍的方式。
女孩学着电视上的样子，开始打扮自己，她觉得男孩不回家，也许是看腻了她，她决
定不再颓废，自己的幸福应该靠自己争取，而不是无谓的后退。
那天，女孩心血来潮，按照地址去了男孩工作的地方，那是女孩第一次去，也是唯一
的一次。女孩涩涩的按下电梯，来到这个男孩经常说忙的地方，她细细的观察这个公
司的每个角落，这里的一切，她都觉得很好看。终于，绕过长长的办公走廊，她来到
男孩的办公室，轻轻的推开门……女孩愣住了，眼前看到的不是自己的丈夫，也不是
那个经常弄坏她自行车的那个贼小子，更不是那个把虾放在小鱼缸里的男孩，而是一
个正在和别的女人做爱的男人。那个女人坐在桌子上，******的发出微弱的呻吟声，
那个男人，仿佛山林里饿极了的野兽……
许久，男孩才发现了女孩，男孩惊慌失措，忙把衣裤捡起来穿好。可女孩，转身离开
了。男孩飞奔出去，追着女孩，那晚，大雨袭击了整个城市。女孩不顾男孩的叫喊，
径直往前跑，往回家的方向跑，男孩在女孩后面大喊：“对不起，我还是爱你的，对
不起，我真的只爱你。”可女孩，始终没有听见。
—— 这样的“对不起”太伤人。
男孩一直都没有找到女孩，女孩失踪很久了。男孩的世界已经一片黑暗，无心工作，
无心花天酒地，他想不到女孩可以去哪里，因为女孩没有朋友，她唯一的朋友就是男
孩，男孩终日守着电话机，手机24小时不关机，怕错过了女孩的电话。这一等就是半
年多。
快递为男孩送来一个盒子。
男孩打开一看，里面是许多河虾的标本，有的在树叶边休息，有的在水草里躲着，各
式各样的河虾标本，旁边放着一封信。
“ 我始终没有勇气再见到你，可能是我太懦弱，也或许是我根本不想见到你，我想这些
『警告：注意文明用语！』应该过的没什么两样吧，我很好，我学会了离开你怎么让
自己存活，我懂得了怎样赚钱养活自己，而不用每天等着你回家，为你烧一桌热腾腾
的饭菜，直到凉了也不见你的人，我的手机已经不用了，因为我已经不会再为你24小
时的不关机，让自己饱受辐射的折磨。我懂得怎样去爱惜自己，珍惜自己的本来应该
美好的生活。我想，我是可以忘记怎么去爱你的，因为你把我的爱弄得遍地麟伤。
离婚协议书，就压在鱼缸的底下，你签完字，按照地址给我寄过来就行了。
对不起，我想我是真的累了。”
男孩按照地址找去，他满心希望能够见到女孩，然后让女孩原谅，并且告诉女孩自己
不能没有她，可是打开门的却是女孩的父亲，而女孩就站在她父亲的身后——是女孩
的遗像。
女孩的父亲告诉男孩，女孩在写完这封信后，跳楼自杀了，血肉一片模糊。
—— 原来“对不起”也可以是种结束。
那一年，男孩疯了。
每个人在自己的生命里头，一定会遇到一个自己真正该珍惜的人。请你好好的珍惜那
一个人，不是每一句的对不起，都可以换来每一句的没关系……千万不要辜负了自己
心爱的人，那对谁，都不好……
Labels: Don be Sorry to the one U love
Saturday, April 25, 2009
~ 6:48 AM ~
那么一对情侣.
女孩很漂亮,非常善解人意,偶尔时不时出些坏点子耍耍男孩.
男孩很聪明,也很懂事,最主要的一点.幽默感很强.
总能在2个人相处中找到可以逗女孩发笑的方式. 女孩很喜欢男孩这种乐天派的心情.
他们一直相处不错,女孩对男孩的感觉,淡淡的,说男孩象自己的亲人.
男孩对女孩爱甚深,非常非常在乎她.所以每当吵架的时候,男孩都会说是自己不好,自己的错. 即
使有时候真的不怪他的时候,他也这么说.他不想让女孩生气.
就这样过5年,男孩仍然非常爱女孩,象当初一样.
有一个周末,女孩出门办事,男孩本来打算去找女孩,但是一听说她有事,就打消了这个念头.
他在家里呆了一天,他没有联系女孩,他觉得女孩一直在忙,自己不好去打扰他.
谁知女孩在忙的时候,还想着男孩,可是一天没有接到男孩的消息,她很生气.
晚上回家后,发了条信息给男孩,话说得很重.甚至提到了分手.
当时是晚上12点.
男孩心急如焚,打女孩手机,连续打了3次,都给挂断了.打家里电话没人接,猜想 是女孩把电话线了.
男孩抓起衣服就出门了,他要去女孩家.当时是12点25.
女孩在12点40的时候又接到了男孩的电话,从手机打来的,她又给挂断了.
一夜无话.男孩没有再给女孩打电话.
第2天,女孩接到男孩母亲的电话,电话那边声泪俱下.
男孩昨晚出了车祸.
警方说是车速过快导致刹车不急,撞到了一辆坏在半路的大货车.
救护车到的时候,人已经不行了. 女孩心痛到哭不出来,可是再后悔也没有用了.
她只能从点滴的回忆中来怀念男孩带给她的欢乐和幸福.
女孩强忍悲痛来到了事故车停车场,她想看看男孩呆过的最后的地方.
车已经撞得完全不成样子. 方向盘上,仪表盘上,还沾有男孩的血迹.
男孩的母亲把男孩当时身上的遗物给了女孩,钱包,手表,还有那部沾满了男孩鲜血的手机.
女孩翻开钱包,里面有她的照片,血渍浸透了大半张.
当女孩拿起男孩的手表的时候,赫然发现,手表的指针停在12点35分附近.
女孩瞬间明白了,男孩在出事后还用最后一丝力气给她打电话,而她自己却因为还在堵气没有接.
男孩再也没有力气去拨第2遍电话了,他带着对女孩的无限眷恋和内疚走了.
女孩永远不知道,男孩想和她说的最后一句话是什么.
女孩也明白,不会再有人会比这个男孩,更爱她了！
Moral of the story..............Never take anyone for granted!!!!!!!!!!Espcially the loves one!=)
Tuesday, January 27, 2009
~ 8:49 PM ~
"We can have more than we've got because we can become more than we are." - Jim Rohn
"Your failures won't hurt you until you start blaming them on others." - Unknown
''Nobody can be successful unless he loves his work." - David Sarnoff
''There are two primary choices in life: to accept condition as they exist, or accept the responsibility for changing them." - Denis Waitley
''Events will take their course, it is no good of being angry at them; he is happiest who wisely turns them to the best account. '' -Euripides
''If we did all the things we are capable of, we would literally astound ourselves.'' -Thomas Edison
''Sucess depends upon previous preparation , and without such preparation there is sure to be failure. - Confucius
"You cannot retain a true and clear vision of wealth if you are constantly turning your attention to opposing pictures, whether there be external or imaginary." - Wallace D. Wattles
''I want to remind you that success in life is based on hard slogging. There will be periods when discouragement is great and upsetting, and the antidote for this is calmness and fortitude and a modest yet firm belief in your competence. Be sure that your priorities are in order so that you can proceed in a logical manner, and be ever mindful that nothing will take the place of persistence.'' - Walter Annenberg
''Discipline is remembering what you want'' - David Campbell
"The key that unlocks energy is desire. It's also the key to a long and interesting life. If we expect to create any drive, any real force within ourselves, we have to get excited. " - Earl Nightingale
"Success is not the key to happiness. Happiness is the key to success. If you love what you are doing, you will be successful." - Albert Schweitzer
''Leaders aren't born , they are made. And they are made just like anything else , through hard work. - Vince Lombardi
"Experience is one thing you can't get for nothing." - Oscar Wilde
''Happiness belongs to those who are sufficient unto themselves. For all external sources of happiness and pleasure are, by their very nature, highly uncertain, precarious, ephemeral and subject to chance. '' - Arthur Schopenhauer
"The greatest waste in the world is the difference between what we are and what we could become." - Ben Herbster
''Your most precious, valued possessions and your greatest powers are invisible and intangible. No one can take them. You, and you alone, can give them. You will receive abundance for your giving.'' - W.Clement Stone
"One can choose to go back toward safety or forward toward growth. Growth must be chosen again and again; fear must be overcome again and again." - Abraham Maslow
"If your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more,do more and become more, you are a leader." - John Quincy Adams
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''The time is always right to do what is right. ''- Dr. Martin Luther King
"The more people I serve, the more rich I become." - Robert Kiyosaki
"In reading the lives of great men, I found that the first victory they won was over themselves. Self-discipline with all of them came first." - Harry Truman
''Don't wait until everything is just right. It will never be perfect. There will always be challenges, obstacles and less than perfect conditions. So what. Get started now. With each step you take, you will grow stronger and stronger, more and more skilled, more and more self-confident and more and more successful. '' - Mark Victor Hansen
Heehee....these were e Quote that I have got...Thanks lots!!!!!!!Labels: from 1/6 till 1/26
Tuesday, January 6, 2009
~ 1:42 AM ~
"When people yearn with all their heartsFor just one treasure far away;They close their eyes to
countless joysThat crowd around them every day." Anonymous
"You have to find happiness in yourself before you can find it with someone." Anonymous
"Very little is needed to make a happy life; it is all within yourself, in your way of thinking."
Marcus Aurelius Antoninus
"People take different roads seeking fulfillment and happiness. Just because they're not on your
road doesn't mean they've gotten lost." H.Jackson Browne
"Happiness is like a cat, If you try to coax it or call it,it will avoid you;
it will never come.
But if you paynot attention to it and go about your business, you'llfind it rubbing
against your legs and jumping into yourlap."
William John Bennett
Thanks to one of my friend who let mi discover these Quote...=)Labels: Happiness Quote
Saturday, August 30, 2008
~ 10:44 AM ~
28/8/2008
After exam..around 10++...
then realise tt teacher's day cuming...and so..
contact all e other sec4 percussionist!!!
we all go back to wgsco!!
although not everyone present due to too last min....XP
But.......stil abot 90% of us is there!!!
Last year in Wgs le.....
we cleb wif Mr low in WGSco as current present Wgsco's percussionist
although is jus a small cake..bt...hehehe.....
...is e 'cheng yi' that count!!!!
these were e pics taken on tt day!...
take 1
take 2
final take
hehee.....last year is tilaminsu cake..
tis year is coco cakeXP...
Heeheee...although we might be physically away from wgasco...
but our sprit will always remain!~XP
Friday..29/8/2008
delfin .ChengFeng & I....we stay back and make a card for Mr Low....till quite late..
we even went to FCC and pass e card to Lao DA...he will help us pass e card to teacher on mco!
we put in alot of effort to make e card......I'm sure MrLow will like it very much!!!heheee..
Thanks to ZK,Ian and of course LaoDA!!!!!
thanks for ur help !!!!!
Sometime is not about e price of present U prepare for it....
is e sincere that count!!!!........Labels: cleb teacher day wif Mr low
Thursday, June 12, 2008
~ 10:58 AM ~
A simple friend, when visiting, acts like a guest.
A real friend opens your refrigerator and helps himselfand doesn't feel even the least bit weird shutting your 'beer/Pepsi drawer' with her/his foot.
A simple friend has never seen you cry.
A real friend shoulder is soggy from your tears..
A simple friend doesn't know your parents' first names.
A real friend has their phone numbersin his address book.
A simple friend brings a bottle of wine to your party.
A real friend comes early to help you cook and stays late to help you clean.
A simple friend hates it when you call after they've gone to bed.
A real friend asks you why you took so long to call.
A simple friend seeks to talk with you about yourproblems.
A real friend seeks to help you with your problems.
A simple friend wonders about your romantic history.
A real friend could blackmail you with it!
A simple friend thinks the friendship is over whenyou have an argument.
A real friend calls you after you had a fight.
A simple friend expects you to always be there for them.
A real friend expects to always be there for you!
'Never frown, even when you are sad, because you never know who isfalling in love with your smile. Labels: U are my real friend?..who were ur real friend?
~ 10:12 AM ~
These are some of the pic taken during SYCO 'concert!!!!!
I love concert!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!heheee........
Picture taken with Jasmine&Anne!!!!!!~
Joel!!!!!!!A very good senior!!who very good at
mallert!!!!!
Heehee.......4 new frined found in Syco!
Beekiam&Anne!!!!heheee......
being squenze in e middle~!!
Baby!!!!!look dumbdumb de..XP
Rabbit VS MeiGui!!!!!!!!!~~~
''If U dare?!!!''by Meigui...
''U!!!!!U!!!u!.....U Win!!...Hymph!~'''by Rabbit
heheee.....tis pic taken at e backstage!
Both of they so funny!!!!
3 of us wear e same colour shirt!!!Black and white!~
heheee.......
With Meigui...she very good!!!she quite pretty de wo~!
JunHe & Zhixin!!!!!nice rite?!!!heheee.......
wahhahaha......Rabbit being makeup....
so ooooooo pretty rite!!!!XP
Rabbit!!!!!!!!He very funny and nice!!the most
funnies guy I ever seen!!!!!!!heheeee
With chuyin!Mm....heyhey!!!!gals taking photo
not guy notguy!!!!!
Heeheee...with LaoDa!!!!!!!!
Mm...smile more!!!!!
This my 1st year in SYCO....
Mm.....I know quite alot of nice Ppl!!!
They were skilful in music!But they wont be selfish
to share with U~!!!(of course there's stil some,who were @$&^%$~~)
I am very lucky to get in SYco!The most important things is ,get to know more friends!!!
Espcially seniors of percussion!!!!!They were soooo nice!!!!
heheee.........Labels: SYCO's 2008 concert
